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You’ve met her online, or maybe on a fateful trip. She’s beautiful, kind, family-oriented, and speaks of a life filled with sunset beaches, vibrant fiestas, and unwavering loyalty. The dream is intoxicating: marrying your Island Princess, building a home in the Philippines, and starting a family surrounded by natural beauty and warm hospitality.
But here’s the hard truth that no dating site or travel blog will tell you: Between that dream and your “happily ever after” lies a complex, unspoken landscape that has broken many a good man’s spirit and bank account.
The romantic fantasy is just the cover. The real story is written in cultural codes, intricate family obligations, and daily realities that can leave even the most well-intentioned foreigner feeling lost, used, and isolated.
“Relocating Overseas For An Island Princess” is the e-book that tears down the fantasy and builds you a roadmap to reality. This is not a love story; it’s a 15-chapter survival manual and cultural decoder written by Merv Moore, a man who has lived this exact journey since 1998. He married his Island Princess, Lerma, raised a family on Bohol Island, and learned the hard way so you don’t have to.
This Is The Unwritten “No BS” Guide
Forget what you think you know. Success in building a life in the Philippines isn’t about money alone; it’s about cultural intelligence. This book equips you with the street smarts and emotional tools you desperately need to protect your relationship, your wallet, and your sanity.
Inside, you’ll get the unfiltered truth on:
The Cultural Operating System: Decode the invisible rules that govern every interaction. Understand core values like Utang na Loob (Debt of Gratitude), Hiya (Shame/Face), and Pakikisama (Harmony). These aren’t just words—they are the code that will explain your future family’s decisions and expectations.
Navigating the “Infinite Halo” of Family: Your marriage is not to one woman; it is to her entire extended family network. Learn practical, loving strategies for setting boundaries, managing endless financial requests, and defining your role as a husband and provider, not just a bottomless wallet.
Red Flags & Due Diligence: Protect your heart and assets from common pitfalls. The
book provides actionable steps to verify identities, spot the “perpetual crisis” scam, and avoid digital deception before you’re in too deep.
The Daily Rhythm & Social Minefields: From mastering the drinking ritual (tagayan) to handling the constant flow of neighbors and unannounced guests, you’ll learn how to navigate daily life without causing offense or building resentment.
Safety, Law, and Practical Reality: Get straight talk on critical issues. You cannot own land outright as a foreigner—so how do you secure a home? What are your best visa pathways? How do you deal with local authority figures? This guide cuts through the legal confusion.
The Psychological Journey: Prepare for the hidden challenge: isolation and identity loss. Learn to manage intense culture shock, combat loneliness, and handle the pressure of being the perpetual “foreigner” while maintaining your own sense of self.
A Man Who Has Walked Your Path
Merv Moore isn’t a theorist. He retired as an international baseball coach, married his Island Princess, and built a life from the ground up in Caloocan City, before moving to her hometown. His wife, Lerma, is now a Barangay Councilor. His advice is born from 27 years of marriage, real mistakes, and hard-won wisdom. This is the book he wishes he had when he started.
Your Dream is Worth Protecting
For less than the cost of buying a cup of coffee (just $4.99), you can arm yourself with the knowledge that will determine whether your dream becomes a joyful legacy or a costly nightmare.
Stop navigating the most important decision of your life with guesswork and naive optimism. The path to a happy, sustainable life with your Island Princess is clear—but you need the right guide.
Click Here to Download “Relocating Overseas For An Island Princess” e-book and Start Building on a Foundation of Truth
Get your copy today. Protect your dream, empower your future, and build the real, lasting love you deserve.
